Why is it some women won't admit they're shallow and gaslight instead?

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Why is it some women won't admit they're shallow and gaslight instead?
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What I mean is, there are hundreds of thousands of videos on YouTube, Tik-Tok and Facebook of women insulting short men and expressing their unwillingness to give them a chance, but when you talk about this, they insist this doesn't happen?

These videos and memes get liked and shared thousands of times daily, but if you bring this up by calling them out on this,  you either get crickets or "most women aren't like this, you must hate women", etc. Similar content aimed at women which criticize their behavior, bodies or life choices get shaming language or threats to cancel. 

As a guy in college, I'd like to know why we can't even bring this up. 

I'm not some incel, I get dates, but it baffles me that people can't have honest conversation about something that everyone knows happens. 

 

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Re: Why is it some women won't admit they're shallow and gaslight instead?
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Because they have to look good in front of the group, whoever that group is. It could be their peers or society. This is always why we say, "watch what they do, not what they say".

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Re: Why is it some women won't admit they're shallow and gaslight instead?
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Classic virtue signaling. "Good for thee, but not for me".

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