How many dates before it is official?

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How many dates before it is official?
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I am curious about this. When dating a woman, when does it become and official relationship? How many dates does it take?

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Re: How many dates before it is official?
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Depends on the people. Some go stright into a relationship after one date, others date a few months before naming a relationship.

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I would say 4 dates or one month, whatever comes first. 

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Re: How many dates before it is official?
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Depends on the chick. Some want an instant boyfriend, other's like to test the water. If I am on a date and it goes well, and I plan on seeing the same women again, I am all for making it official. 

 

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Re: How many dates before it is official?
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Originally posted by Dez

I would say 4 dates or one month, whatever comes first. 


I go by this as well. By 4 dates or a months time you should know if the person is worth commiting to.

 

 

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Re: How many dates before it is official?
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Too many variables to answer this vague question. Depends on the woman. 

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