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ThatFlyShortGuy

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Height: 5'7

Location: Queens, NYC, United States

Joined: Apr 16, 2014

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Re: Need Help: How can you tell if a girl likes you?

I'm probably going to be downvoted to hell here, but your question is very broad. We don't know context, how she interacts with others and what the purpose of her being in your presence is (is she in the same course as you? some woman you see from time to time while going from class to class? etc?).

Generally, if a woman is into you and interacts with your regularly, she'll be super nice to you (even if she is a b*** in general, this is why you need to see her interact with others). She'll be available often even if she's busy. She'll laugh at your jokes even if they're corny and she'll also make an effort to do things for you.

If you haven't gotten that far into knowing her, then simple smiles, locking eyes, catching a peep when you're not looking, making the effort to talk to you.

But you have to know CONTEXT. If you share the same class with her and she is nice to you, she could be looking for a study buddy and drop you at the end of the semester.

Look at the big picture and be cautious. If she is in your class, then trying to chat her up to date is not a good idea. Never sh*** where you eat. If the fall out is bad, it will affect your performance and piece of mind in the class.

Dating

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Re: You need tall people and women on your side to fight height bigotry

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Originally posted by multinational

I see what you are doing, and its a good deed. but the problem is, that it is not yet socially acceptable for a man to ask for help from others that do not sit in the same wagon.

In general, having people of the opposite talkin on your behalf makes us look weak in this exact moment.

You are looking at it the wrong way tho'. blacks, gays etc are not primitive issues, but short people are, especially men who are seen as lesser.

So then what would your approach be?

Heightism

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Re: Anyone salty when they hear women talk about "body acceptance"?

There is an awesome article where Radio Host Mumia Obsidian Ali talks about this very topic. He examines People Magazine's Sexiest Man going all the way back to 1985 and found that with the exception of one person (Tom Cruise), every man was 5'10-6'2, white and ripped (Denzel Washington was the only Non-White).

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Re: Suggestions for confidence and avoiding the friend zone

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Originally posted by sushilonair1 Dear friends ,I was searching for different solution for confidence building where I came across this site.ita really wonderful that you guys have such a community.i am happy to share my life's dilemma.kinda use ur advice friends.i am 5ft 3 inch tall ,slim and a banker.my height did not grew after college.thats why I always shy away from girls.all well i studied and now in a good position of earning much.but there has been some circumstances where I came across beautiful girls but they all have made me friends.since then I am having a phobia of not having a girl in my life.i am 30,and now afraiding of initiating a relationship.i am thinking I will remain all alone in my life,becuz I donot think any one would love me.i always try to keep myself self motivated and have a good friends circle.

Have you checked out the "How To Become A Confident Short Man: 10 Steps To Make You Begin Kicking Ass In Life" PDF that you get for free when signing up to this site? Have you checked out some of the Confidence articles around here?

First off, 5'3 is life on hard mode because of the way society views shortness in us men. Second, you have to get out there and face rejection. We all face it. It doesn't matte how tall we are or aren't. You can't make moves without actually making moves.

If you're Banker, you're already "better" than 99% of us as the income you can make in that field puts you ahead of the game.

Welcome to SGC!

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