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Need Help: How can you tell if a girl likes you?
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12-07-2016 at 05:18 am

So I need help...  I really like this girl in my university...  She's nice and respectful to me and all, but I'm getting a sense that she's just being nice to me (as always).  I normally don't pursue woman for obvious reasons, but I want to know how to tell if a woman likes you, especially if you're a shorter guy.  

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12-09-2016 at 10:04 am

I'm probably going to be downvoted to hell here, but your question is very broad. We don't know context, how she interacts with others and what the purpose of her being in your presence is (is she in the same course as you? some woman you see from time to time while going from class to class? etc?).

 

Generally, if a woman is into you and interacts with your regularly, she'll be super nice to you (even if she is a b*** in general, this is why you need to see her interact with others). She'll be available often even if she's busy. She'll laugh at your jokes even if they're corny and she'll also make an effort to do things for you.

 

If  you haven't gotten that far into knowing her, then simple smiles, locking eyes, catching a peep when you're not looking, making the effort to talk to you.

 

But you have to know CONTEXT. If you share the same class with her and she is nice to you, she could be looking for a study buddy and drop you at the end of the semester.

 

Look at the big picture and be cautious. If she is in your class, then trying to chat her up to date is not a good idea. Never sh*** where you eat. If the fall out is bad, it will affect your performance and piece of mind in the class. 

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Originally posted by ThatFlyShortGuy

I'm probably going to be downvoted to hell here, but your question is very broad. We don't know context, how she interacts with others and what the purpose of her being in your presence is (is she in the same course as you? some woman you see from time to time while going from class to class? etc?).

 

Generally, if a woman is into you and interacts with your regularly, she'll be super nice to you (even if she is a b*** in general, this is why you need to see her interact with others). She'll be available often even if she's busy. She'll laugh at your jokes even if they're corny and she'll also make an effort to do things for you.

 

If  you haven't gotten that far into knowing her, then simple smiles, locking eyes, catching a peep when you're not looking, making the effort to talk to you.

 

But you have to know CONTEXT. If you share the same class with her and she is nice to you, she could be looking for a study buddy and drop you at the end of the semester.

 

Look at the big picture and be cautious. If she is in your class, then trying to chat her up to date is not a good idea. Never sh*** where you eat. If the fall out is bad, it will affect your performance and piece of mind in the class. 


Thanks for the answer!  You have given me valuable tips.  Of course, I'm probably friend-zoned.  After the quarter just ended, I felt like I was dropped.  In terms of the class issue, you're right.  I guess I'll just resort to going MGTOW (As if I had a choice).

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12-09-2016 at 03:30 pm

Well, honestly it also depends on your age, since women in the 20s are super unpredictable. 

In my experience, she will copy what you are doing, if you are eating with her, and you lay down your fork, she will subconsciously do the same, she will play with her hair when she is talking to you. She will be interested in your conversations.

Small signs that might suggest that she is interested, you can also look it up on youtube, keep in mind that it does not always mean that she is interested.

On the flipside, if she turns dramatically when you are texting, to like ignoring you, talking hours to respond, starts sending snaps, doesnt matter if it is to you personally or my story, with outcuts of her life when she is social or doing "interesting" things, then she might be interested.

 

But if she seems super confident around you in a way that seems superior, taking initative continually contacting you, calling you sweet, asking into your previous dating life. she is probably not into you. 

- That is only in my experience.

But take care, cause before you know it, you are already falling for her which will hurt you in the end. I would end it before it gets to serious, protecting myself. Telling her, that you cant see her anymore cause you can feel something, will be the best way, in that way she can either respond, i like you too, or i understand.

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