Has college changed your personality for the worse or the better?

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Has college changed your personality for the worse or the better?
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I was thinking about how much college corrupted me and wanted to know how or if college changed any of you.

 

Pre-University: I was extremely boring. Introverted. Played video games until 2 a.m.. Studied and have very few friends.

 

Post-University: I was having lots of casual encounters, drank and did lots of controlled substances, partied until the wee hours of the morning twice or three times a week, had multiple girlfriends, but still managed to crank a 3.8GPA. It's not a 4.0, but it was still good.

 

I'm very social now and owe it to college. How about any of you?

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I was a wild guy back in College, but only in the first two years. I mellowed out by senior year and only keep the energy for the ladies.

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Depressing. Always comparing my height with other guys. If a girl showed
interest, I thought I wasn't good enough for her due to my height.
It was intimidating to be 4" below average height.

When one girl wanted to have sex, I rejected it. No matter what girl
liked me, I would never make a move. Height was the excuse that I wasn't
attractive enough for any girl. College was stressful. I was an introvert.
Partying happened once and for what? For nothing cos I would never make
a move. I dressed good, had good hygiene but I was still short.

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This is proof that it's more about your personality than your height. Clearly if you had women approaching you and you rejected them, then the problem was with yourself at that time. Hopefully that has changed now that you're older. 5'6 is not that short, especially for your race. What do you do for a living?

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I will admit. After dealing with a lot rejection in college, I became cynical and a douche.

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if u dont like urself for being short, what difference does it make if a girl likes u?
ur going to reject her.

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This is why its important that we love ourselves. 

Last Edited By hardshortworker (2014-06-28 19:06:04)

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