First and foremost let me excuse for my english, since its not my native language...

With that being said, i have something that have been bugging me for a very long time,
and i would like to hear your opinion on the subject.

This is mostly dating related. But one thing that i find unfair is the peoples ability to forgive and forget.
We've all made bad choices in life, however some are worse than others.

When we go out to meet another girl, we slowly get to know her,
usually it doesnt take long before her unattractive stories from the past starts emerging.
Which is usually a bad choice that she's made. Could be that she's been sleeping with far to many,
or taking to many party drugs, maybe hanging with the wrong crew,
been in to many shortterm relationships or what ever.
Could be anything that is against what you stand for.

People tend to overlook these facts and just comment "that's in the past, it doesnt matter".
Were as I, if i had a say would say that i mattered. You are but just a reflection of your past,
it defines you. It tells the story why you are the way you are today.
A past forms and molds you. If i hear someones past, i can correctly guess the persons behavior.
If someone told me the few examples i just gave, i would come as no suprise that,
that person would be still living on the edge of the legal society,
still smoking weed once i a while (which is illegal in my country),
party a little to often, and have a friend and aquaintances circle that is no good.
And in general living as that pearson was 5-10 years younger than what she actually is.

For me there is a socially hierarchy, people that have been living on the outskirts are on the bottom.
You are master of your own choices, and saying "i was young and stupid, but that made me smarter" is just a stupid excuse for being an idiot the start with.
Past doesnt necessarily make you stronger.

What is the reason to make the right choices in life, sacrificing parts of your freedom, and doing what you think is right in any given sitation, even if you wanted take the easier and wrong choice 
If you're just gonna end up in the same pool as everybody else, in the end?

For me past is important, and I think i have the right to judge someone by it.
Someone who've wronged life, should not have the same socially privileges as someone who've done it right.

I'm asking of the women you've dated, what is the average height range? Many of us have said that really short women reject us more than average height and tall women. What has been your experience? 

One of the greatest martial artists to ever walk the face of this earth. Just wanted to point that out. 

Not just on the dating scene, but for everything overall. Sometimes it's tough to even talk to strangers when noticing that everyone around me is so much taller. I've been to therapy, but nothing has come of it since the problems I face are external. Therapists cannot show any real empathy because it isn't a problem they can understand. Everyone keeps telling me my problems are in my head, but I know it's bigger than that.

Gotta say that I love this place. Hope you all have a Merry Xmas and a Happy New Year!

From PsychiatryOnline.org

ABSTRACT

Objective: Previous studies have found associations between poor fetal and infant growth and the risk of suicide. The authors’ goal was to investigate the association between height—a measure of childhood growth—and suicide risk. 

Method: The authors conducted a record linkage study of the birth, conscription, mortality, family, and census register data of 1,299,177 Swedish men followed from age 18 to a maximum of age 49. 

Results: There were 3,075 suicides over an average follow-up period of 15 years. There was a strong inverse association between height and suicide risk. In fully adjusted models, a 5-cm increase in height was associated with a 9% decrease in suicide risk. 

Conclusions: The strong inverse association between height and suicide may signify the importance of childhood exposure in the etiology of adult mental disorder or reflect stigmatization or discrimination encountered by short men in their adult lives.

Study can be read at this link

What are your thoughts?