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For this thread, I'm talking about black women who date and interact with black men. I'm not talking so much about other men's experience with black women. And on that note, there seems to be a double standard which I will get to later.
If you browse threads on websites like Lipstick Alley and Nairaland (I chose those two sites deliberately), you can see a very callous and vitriolic view of anything that discusses the idea of shorter guys and romance. And I mean, the responses are usually very nasty.
Now, no one likes to be stereotyped, and I'm not creating this thread to purposely create division or talk horribly about black women, but this is an honest question.
Are black women and by extension is black culture more heightist and hostile to shorter men than others?
In my opinion, this is a woman's nightmare on a dating show or dating app. He holds all of the cards.
How do we know this? Though many of women there couldn't stand him and popped their balloons, many of them continued to go back and forth with him because they felt they need to prove something.
If Dr. Elom were a foot shorter, never mind that they would've popped the balloons the moment he walked on; they would've dismissed everything and anything he had to say. If you want to argue this, look at the way the different groups of women treat pretty much any short contestant.
The amount of toxicity of short man hate on the site is palpable. Just think about that person who is cordial with you. They're having these thoughts when they interact with you even if you're nice and respectful to them.
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