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(Reddit) As A Plus Sized Woman, What Irritates You In Dating?
The parallels between what Short Men talk about and what fat chicks talk about are almost so identical, of course except that the key to all of their (fatties) problems are within literal reach. Anyone of them can get up on any day and lose f**** weight. I don't care how hard it is. Either be happy being a fatty or lose weight and be like everyone else! Check out some of the things people said on that post
- guys who want to *bleep* you but would never actually date a fat girl
- That I'm not allowed to have standards or dealbreakers, that fatty should just be happy with what she gets.
- Guys who act like they deserve a pat on the back for dating me or *bleep* talk skinny/fit women to contrast. "I'm not like other guys, I hate skin and bones, I like extra meat on a woman". Shut the *bleep* up.
- I always felt like I couldn't initiate things because I couldn't assume if a guy would be okay with a chubbier girl. I didn't want to offend a guy by coming on to him. I had to let the guy be the one to ask me. It was the only way to be okay with it.
- I lost seventy pounds but what i *bleep* hated about dating at my highest weight is that i would be up front with people about my weight in an internet dating or friend of friend set up situation. Full body pics (clothed), no fancy angles, sometimes even gave them a *bleep* number on a scale and it never failed that two of the guys would be like, ON THE DATE and tell me to my face that "oh i didn't realize you were THAT big" when i honestly overcommunicated my size to avoid that sort of situation. Also got a guy who wanted to be my trainer.
- People telling me "Oh, you're awesome. You're perfect and I'd date you in a heartbeat if you were thinner". How about go *bleep* yourself! I wouldn't date you if I was thinner or fatter.Guys seem to think this is a big *bleep* compliment. It's not.
How can these chicks not see the similarities? Do I feel sorry for them? Nope. Chances are they too are on the "nope won't date a guy shorter than me" bandwagon.
Topic: Reddit Post: "As A Plus-Sized Woman, What's Irritates You In Dating?"
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Originally posted by ahimsa42
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living in a wealthy industrialized nation it may be easy to believe this but the evidence strongly suggests otherwise. in fact, it is the greedy corporations who are propogating the myth that there is no issue with what humans are doing to the enviroment and eco-systems in the name of profits. you may want to check out this great documentary to learn the fact based reality of just how serious of an issue this is: http://www.cowspiracy.com/
Not sure what you're getting at. What does this have to do with height or having kids?
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Originally posted by unknown
This post may be viewed by those who with certain beliefs and will be considered the views of "Napoleon Complex". Nonetheless, I will continue to express my thoughts: that as a man, you are to use your small-statured characteristic for your advantage. I'm pretty sure that some of you already know that. However, let me elaborate. I say, use your height as a way to progress to earn your dream. Whether it would be education, careers, sports etc., use your height to invest towards your dreams. One thing what this gene has taught me to do was to develop a thick skin and persevere. It has taught me to aim BIG. Think of 'adversity' as a win win. With that being said, if girl were to reject you for being small-statured, then you dodged a bullet. Clearly, she is shallow and inane. Hence, instead of giving time to these girls, give time to your studies/preparation for your dream. A dream that will grant you earned reverence.
Amen.
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Originally posted by xnicox
hey whats up everyone i just want to tell you i thought the same thing.So i moved to China of course i live in capital I can tell you that on average the guys are between 5'8-5'10 its not uncommon to see one over 6ft. At 5'4 I'm still the shortest guy at work or pretty much wherever i go but i will say there are a bit more shorter guys here but on average they are about 5'8 and up.
as for the girls id say between 5'3 and 5'5 of course there are many between 5'7-5'9. while its easy for me to find girls here it can be a little difficult because as a culture they like for their men to be at least 180cm so sometimes if you write a girl online she will immediately ask u for your height and when i say 170cm she will delete me sometimes.
Also a lot of people you meet will ask u where you're from when i say I am american they will ask me why are you not tall americans are supposed to be tall.
So in China it actually worse sometimes especially as an american because they expect all americans to be over 6ft I have been here for 4 years. i actually had to learn chinese before i could really get any girls out on dates because when you go to where the foreigners are they are looking for a guy 6ft and up . So i learned chinese and sort of stick to where the foreigners aren't so it kind of increases my chances but I'm telling you if you think China is the promise land guess again ,I mean at least beijing isnt
Now I will say I have also been to Philippines and those girls are short 4'11-5'3 the guys are also around 5'3-5'8 that was a little bite better. Any way I hope this helps
Right now South America would be your promise land. Boliva, Peru, places like that. Height discrimination was actually legal in China until 2005, so while everyone says "go to Asia" it isn't what it's cracked up to be.
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