Being a short guy on Tinder

hardshortworker
Member
hardshortworker
Short Squire
Height: 5'6
Location: Jersey City, United States
Joined: May 07, 2014
Posts: 60
Reactions: 8
Score: 3 | 3
LowerViewCa$h: 17

Offline

Dating
Being a short guy on Tinder
post #1

So as a not so tall guy and hearing not so great things about how short guys are seen by women on Tinder I decided to get my feet wet and give it the old college try anyway. In less than a week I had 24 matches. 6 of them stopped talking to me when I told them my height (they asked). 10 of them didn't ask and wanted to go on a date. Out of curiosity (and not to waste my time), I bought my height up several times and none of them cared (with the exception of two who sucked their teeth and made comments about not being able to wear heels). 

The other 8 did not bother to respond to any messages (probably validation "I feel so good about guys trying to hit me up on Tinder, let me get their hopes up by swiping right!). 

I have 2 dates this week, so not too shabby! I'd imagine though that if I were 6'+ I'd have way more dates. I'd say even if you are short, give it a shot and don't let the non-repliers get to you. 

ahimsa42
Member
ahimsa42
Short Knight
Height: 5'6
Location: Chicago, United States
Joined: Aug 23, 2015
Posts: 133
Reactions: 0
Score: 0 | 0
LowerViewCa$h: 97

Offline

Re: Being a short guy on Tinder
post #2

imo, not much that can be done about this.  as this article states, dating in general and especially online dating, is at best extremely challenging:

http://thoughtcatalog.com/luke-hart/2015/05/how-it-feels-to-be-a-short-guy-in-the-world-of-dating/

 

 

hardshortworker
Member
hardshortworker
Short Squire
Height: 5'6
Location: Jersey City, United States
Joined: May 07, 2014
Posts: 60
Reactions: 8
Score: 3 | 3
LowerViewCa$h: 17

Offline

Re: Being a short guy on Tinder
post #3

Quote:

Originally posted by ahimsa42

imo, not much that can be done about this.  as this article states, dating in general and especially online dating, is at best extremely challenging:

http://thoughtcatalog.com/luke-hart/2015/05/how-it-feels-to-be-a-short-guy-in-the-world-of-dating/

 

 

I've come across that article before but I don't share his experiences. I'm saying I've had much success. Even a 6'+ guy isn't going to have a 100% success rate is what I'm saying. 

Jelly
Member
Jelly Kelly
Short Dame
Height: 5'0
Location: ..., United States
Joined: Mar 13, 2015
Posts: 134
Reactions: 0
Score: 0 | 0
LowerViewCa$h: 0

Offline

Re: Being a short guy on Tinder
post #4

Height plays a factor on Tinder but it isn't a lost cause. Most men who are too fat or too bald get rejected more than shorter men. I know because my friend, Josh, who is 5'5 uses Tinder and has had quite a number of interests.

SIMILAR THREADS REPLIES VIEWS
LAST POST
Woman upset men at matchmaking event were short fat and balding

That one part where she said she was just there to practice lol.

So even after women decided to leave, the women left STILL wanted to engage in humiliating men.

No wonder most dudes pass on these things.

1 191
Sun Mar 15, 2026 10:31 AM
by LilIce
Oeverweight woman tries to argue she has it harder than short men on radio show

She claims they don't get promoted at work.

Go figure...

0 84
Thu Mar 12, 2026 04:32 AM
Woman Furious Men At Dating Event Were So Short

But she needed an event to find someone in the first place.

Go figure...

0 118
Wed Mar 11, 2026 06:37 AM
She Is 5ft And Gets Very Angry When Short Men Approach Her

"Short men need love but not from her".

Go figure...

2 171
Sun Mar 01, 2026 07:34 AM
by Buncome
She Is 4ft11 And Gets Very Angry When Short Men Approach Her

The shelf is the most important concern.

Go figure...

0 257
Sat Feb 28, 2026 03:56 PM