Crush on a coworker

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Crush on a coworker
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There is this cute blonde that I work with in the office. We're both in our 30s so we should know better, but I can't help it. Every time she passes me in the corridor that separates our cubicles, she squeezes my arm and then plays with her hair when she talks to me. She always greets me with a kiss on the cheek when I see her. She doesn't do this with most of the other male coworkers.

 

Am I reading her signals wrong because I find her hot? I'm a bit confused. She's close to my height. I don't want to come off as a creep in that she might just see me as a sweet friend. 

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Never s*** where you eat. Don't do it. You will regret it if it goes south (and it always does)

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> minilinebacker wrote: > Never s*** where you eat. Don't do it. You will regret it if it goes south (and it always does)

Well, where ELSE will you meet women, except in your day to day lives?

Clubs are filled with heightist skanks or girls out with their BFs... where else can you meet women except where you go to University, go to work, etc etc?

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don't.......... do........ it.....................

go to a club, a bar, the library............ anywhere but work.

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> joshbaskins wrote: >

We're both in our 30s so we should know better

 

Your profile says you're 26......

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Coworker won't get off of my case!

Everybody I tell this to won't take me seriously. There is a coworker at work that has a major crush on me and she won't leave me alone. She'a always winking at me when I come to work. She blows kisses to me, always tries to have conversation with me and asks me out repeatedly. Even though I've told her that I have a girflriend and am not interested in her whatsoever, she still makes passes at me and isn't discreet about it either.

 

So my birthday day was a few weeks ago and I got a present delivered to my desk. Baseball tickets. I thought my girlfriend sent them to me so I called my GF to tell her thanks only for her to get mad and tell me she didn't send them to me. So now I'm in trouble! Later that night, I got a mesage on Facebook from my co-worker (she isn't my friend on FB) wishing me well and telling me she sent the tickets. I told her no thank you and that I would give them back to her. She refused but later changed her mind and said she was sorry for being unprofessional. I thought that was it.

 

Wrong! It's not as often as before, but at least once a week she will ask me out, send notes to my desk, and once she even grabbed my butt while I was walking to one of the back offices. I don't know what to do now. My girlfriend trusts me, so I am okay with that. But it seems like me telling this woman to stop is not working. I am wondering whether or not I should contact my GM or what my next step should be. 

 

 

 

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