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I've dated men from as small as 5'3 all the way to 6'5. Height is a turn on, but SO IS short and stocky. I will get turned on more by a man who has an attractive or average face with a built body and short than I would be a tall and scrawny man. My current boyfriend is 5'4 and I met him on a dating site. I have ex boyfriends who are 5'3-5'6. 

I do notice that taller men ask me out more and I have to actually pursue shorter guys when I find them attractive. So no worries. Keep looking and get a thick skin.

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When you say that you like short guys, do you mean shorter than you? Otherwise your post is invalid.

Plenty of women like guys from the same height and above.

 

I believe it when you say that taller men ask you out more frequently. And i simply think its about confidence and not being insecure.

As we all know, shorter guys tend to be more insecure when it comes to women due to the cruel rejections and the surrounding enviornment bulling us on every social platform.

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No woman on this earth likes short men they tolerate them.

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You guys need to chill out a bit. That type of attitude will turn women who actually "like", "tolerate", "loves", "fetishes", etc away from shorter guys. 

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Originally posted by uatsek

No woman on this earth likes short men they tolerate them.


exactly, it is like a guy saying "I like heavy women",  maybe a guy is able to stand being in a relationship with a heavy women but he is always going to be looking at that fit girl and wishes he was with her, like a girl is maybe able to "tolerate" being in a relationship with a short guy, but she is always going to be embaressed with him and really want to get out of the relationship

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Originally posted by d11221

Quote:

Originally posted by uatsek

No woman on this earth likes short men they tolerate them.


exactly, it is like a guy saying "I like heavy women",  maybe a guy is able to stand being in a relationship with a heavy women but he is always going to be looking at that fit girl and wishes he was with her, like a girl is maybe able to "tolerate" being in a relationship with a short guy, but she is always going to be embaressed with him and really want to get out of the relationship


 

To be fair, there are actually guys who prefer bigger women.

I also "know" a girl who prefer short skinny guys.

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I have posted on this topic before, months ago. I guess it would be good to reiterate.  My wife of 32 years genuinely likes that I am short.  She finds large men very intimidating and cannot stand being around them at all, even if they are kind and gentle.  Her Dad was not tall either.  I'm 5'4"-- her Dad was more like 5'6 or 7.  It helps that I have a V-shaped build: small waist and big chest.  She finds me very sexy and attractive.  Guys-- it is unusual, but not unheard-of.  We were made for each other.  God brought us together.  She likes my funny, witty, insightful personality, and that I'm a college VP and a professor and a church leader.  And I make her laugh - a lot.  She knows the height issue bothers me a lot, though I have refused to bring it up in years.  So, she is kind and sensitive and has never said anything disparaging about my height.  She never would.  She truly sought me out because she did not want to spend her life in fear of some huge lout.  Look for such women.  They are rare, but they do exist.

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The hostility is understood but I agree with @ThatFlyShortGuy. If a woman is telling you she likes short men and claims to date them frequently, then what's the problem? Take it at face value and extend your gratitude. We already know that a lot of women don't even like to date men that are their height. If a 5'3 woman does not date men 5'2 and below, but does date men who are 5'3 (who are considered very short by societal standards), it's still a win for us.

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I think farming credits for saying that you like short men is unnecessary.

In my head she gets no upvote for saying that she likes guys that are her height or above, even if they are in the category of short.

If she said that she did not care about height at all. And that men who's actually shorter than her holds equal value .. thats a different story.

 

It might not be majority. But a large portion can settle with someone whos equal in height.

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Originally posted by multinational

In my head she gets no upvote for saying that she likes guys that are her height or above, even if they are in the category of short.

If she said that she did not care about height at all. And that men who's actually shorter than her holds equal value


Everyone has a preference, even you. I love short men and most women that I know would never look twice at a man under 5'10.  So I don't date men under 5'3 so what? I like to be at least eye level when kissing and that's why I have that preference and am okay with 5'3 men. I know women taller than me that won't even look at a man their own height let alone someone who is "short".

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