Short women and height pickiness

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why does it seem like the shorter the woman, the more resistant she is to dating someone who is short too. i'm 5'3. Women who are 4'11 have almost no interest where women who are closer to average seem to be more repective to dating me. why is that? it defies logic...

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I think it's because they recieve so many messages that tell them short = bad. It's a way of trying to erase their own shortness. 

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Media messages, and maybe what they witnessed as children/teenagers in grade school/high school? When you grow up seeing people treated a certain way maybe it sticks with them. Though I think it's part of a larger, broader social problem. Heightism has a lot to do with it. 

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> minilinebacker wrote: >

why does it seem like the shorter the woman, the more resistant she is to dating someone who is short too. i'm 5'6. Women who are 4'11 have almost no interest where women who are closer to average seem to be more repective to dating me. why is that? it defies logic...

 

Are you 5'6 or 5'3? To me, thats a big difference.

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I was typing fast. I am 5'3. I think it has a lot to do with insecurity. They want to be taken seriously also, so they feel having a bigger man will validate them.

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Yes, I notice this. It's almost that height can allow for lack of facial attractiveness and other physical flaws to be forgiven by a lot of women. If a man is a 6 in the face, he suddenly becomes an 8 if he is 6' or taller. Shorter guys like us have to "make it up" somewhere else. If we are a 10 in the face, we suddenly drop to a 6 or 7 if we are under 5'9. Shorter women I think want to say, "I can get a 'real' man too" so they can be noticed. It's an accomplishment. My 5'1 friend only dates men 6' or taller. When asked why, she said that she wants to feel like she's conquering something. It sounds bizarre, but I think shorter women overcompensate by only going for guys much taller than themselves.

 

I think it is completely cultural. There is no reason why a 5'6 woman can be completely okay with dating a 5'10 man but a 5'3 woman would not be content with a 5'7 guy. Most of the shortest women I know only date really tall guys and groan with discontent if a short guy shows any interest in them. I don't know how and why I am able to date so many short women though. I must be one of the lucky ones.

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Yes, women who are 4'10 and 4'11 won't go near me with a stick even though I am 2-3 inches taller than them.

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The shorter they are the pickier they are with the height of their partner. Every short guy notices this yet if you address, people claim that it's all in your head. There are some short women out there that don't mind, but they are very very hard to find.

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This was annoying back in the days, but it seems more common place now. It has to be the media I've had women much shorter than me tell me that I was too short for them. Last week I had a date with a woman who claimed to be 4'9 and 38 years of age say that she is opening her mind to shorter men now that she is older and that is why she agreed to the date!!!!!!!!!!!!

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How about you all stop being entitled whiney men and accept that people have preferences? How many of you would date an ugly wildebeest? huh?

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That’s where TheLowerView approach comes in: fewer pieces, better choices, and accessories that actually carry your outfits through the chaos. Below is a complete breakdown—formal and casual—built for real spring conditions, with affordable options that hold up. Gentleman, the Spring Fashion Accessories Guide for Shorter Men.

 

FORMAL: Stay Sharp, Stay Ready

Umbrellas

A solid umbrella isn’t optional in spring—it’s survival. Go compact, sturdy, and neutral so it doesn’t clash with your outfit.

Affordable option:
Look at brands like Repel Umbrella or Totes—both offer reliable options under $25 that won’t flip inside out at the first gust.

 

Rain Boots

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Trench Coats

Nothing handles unpredictable weather better while still looking polished. Lightweight, neutral colors (tan, navy, black) are the move.

Affordable option:
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Waterproof Hats

Rain without ruining your hair or your outfit. Stick to minimal designs.

Affordable option:
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Brown Shoes

Spring calls for lighter tones. Brown leather shoes (loafers, derbies) feel less heavy than black and work across most outfits.

Affordable option:
Clarks is a reliable go-to for comfortable, affordable leather options around $60–$100.

 

Breathable Fabric Chinos & Dress Pants

Heavy fabrics don’t work in spring. You want airflow without losing structure.

Affordable option:
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Fedoras

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CASUAL: Everyday, But Better

Spring Jackets (Canvas Bombers)

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Rain Hats

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Waterproof Jacket

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Denim Jackets

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Watches With Metal Bands

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Relaxed Fit Pants (Jeans/Chinos)

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Spring style isn’t complicated—it’s reactive. If your accessories and key pieces can handle rain, temperature swings, and long days out, everything else falls into place.

You don’t need more clothes. You need pieces that actually work.

 

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