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Short women taking all the tall men?

I heard someone say this while I was shopping the other day and I had to post it here.

The woman saying this was maybe 5'8ish maybe taller, she goes "I am so sick of all these little girls taking all the tall men. Like come on! There are plenty of short guys us tall and stunning model types don't want!" 

Her friend was about her height as well and just agreed and said it is "pathetic"

So my question is, does it bother you that tall men take all the short women?

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Mon Aug 03, 2015 02:07 PM
Started by tj3333 TJ
Happier Alone

I'm very unusual. I have some what high standards and, sort of, expectations from my relationships. But the most important things to me are loyalty and faithfulness. Being the height that I am, I find it hard to find women who see the value in being with me as I would in them. I can admit, I really don't have much to offer. But I've seen selfish people with a lot less to offer in happy relationships. This isn't a question and I don't really want any advice. I'm just venting because I'm a little annoyed. I'm annoyed that I probably won't find something like that until I'm in my 30's. I'm annoyed that when I do, it'll be with someone with a different moral ground than me. I'm annoyed that people say I'm the problem or I need to change. And again, there's some things I do need to change. But they want me to change who I am which causes this bitter anger inside of me. I'm tired of being alone, but I'm coming to realization that's when I'll be happiest. It hurts because I've always gave myself hope in a fable. "Oh there's 7 billion people in the world. You'll find someone like you who loves you as much as you love them." I didn't understand that the chances are extremely slim and my standards would prove to make that difficult. I'm a little twisted, but I'm happy with who I am as a person. It just sucks that I can't find a girl like me who I can be happy with and spend my time. Whether it's my physical appearance or the way my mind works. I'm not at all what women are interested in and even when they are, they lose interest fast. I now realize I'd be happier alone.

 

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Mon Aug 03, 2015 01:43 PM
Do you care about hair color?

I ask because I am begining to think I am more attracted to darker haired women. I am not sure when this started but I saw a woman I was friend with a few years back. At the time she was blonde and I didn't find her attractive at all and now her hair is dark brown and I was taken back. Her eyes looked like they were glowing. 

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Sat Aug 01, 2015 10:48 PM
by MrDixon
Cute couple on reddit

I wanted to share this post I seen. It is a 16 year old couple who are both short but you can tell how happy they are. 

http://www.reddit.com/r/short/comments/3eishk/me_545_and_my_gf_53/

I wish more men would be like this and show the world they can be happy. Tell all them height freaks to kick rocks.

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Fri Jul 31, 2015 08:31 PM
by Bonez
Going on a date

 It hasn't been long and this wasn't planned but since my ex moved and when we recently spoke, she didn't plan on coming back, I said yes to going out with a friend's girlfriend's friend. She is cute. Brown hair, hazel eyes, about 5'1. She works out but isn't a fitness freak. Nice body, fit but curvy with fat in the right places if you know what I mean.. haha 

Anyways, we are going to keep it casual. We spoke on the phone and will catch a movie and some dinner after. This way we have something to talk about while eating if all else fails. 

The only thing I am worried about is that she is not only friends with her ex, but he is a complete gym rat. The dude is over 6' and has to weight like 210 but all muscle. I don't want to be a let down. We never met but have talked on the phone. She knows I am not tall or buff but still, she hasn't seen me. I am worried. I don't want this worry to ruin the night. Any advice?

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Thu Jul 23, 2015 08:26 PM
by MrDixon
So I may have made a woops.

So I was seeing this gal on and off. We slept together a few times, been on a few dates, it was never serious. Well after not seeing her for like almost 2 months, I get a txt saying we need to talk. She is pregnant. And here is the kicker, she was with 3 other dudes while messing with me. SOOO glad I didn't get serious with her but yeah... there is a 25% the baby is mine. I have been calm for the last few days but it hit me today seeing little kids running around. What do I do in this position? 

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Mon Jul 13, 2015 11:31 AM
by Spider
I think someone at work likes me

So this new girl, or rather, "women" started 2 weeks ago. She is always looking at me smiling and asking me for help. She is 19, which is a but young for me ( I don't date more then 5 years younger than myself), but she is cute. I am not sure if I should do anything about this or not. 

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Sun Jul 12, 2015 04:07 PM
How many dates before it is official?

I am curious about this. When dating a woman, when does it become and official relationship? How many dates does it take?

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Tue Jul 07, 2015 12:21 PM
Is it fair to say short men and tall women have it the hardest?

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Originally posted by GoKnicks

Sounds logical. I guess tall women have it as bad as short guys when it comes to preference but some men like model bodies so tall and thin is what they love.

 I still think women have it easier, even taller ones. BUT that is not to say they don't have trouble with weight. A lot of dudes out there will shun a gal for being 10 pounds heavier then she was when they first started dating. 

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Tue Jul 07, 2015 11:28 AM
Dating in LA sucks

I have been on 10 dates in the last 3 months and they all sucked. I find there are more women out here who are taller than me so dating is harder, not to mention all the men who are like 6' and up. It is a struggle. Any advice on meeting women in LA? I moved here 2 years ago for work and the dating game has been horrific. 

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Mon Jul 06, 2015 01:56 PM
by Spider
Are biker women more... Assertive?

 I got approached by a biker woman last night when me and a few buddies were out eating. She was a few inches taller than me, very strong and beautiful. No make-up, messy hair, around 22 in age (I am pushing 32). Anyways, she walks up to me and tells me she thinks I am a good looking man and wants to buy me a drink. I sat there in shock and my friend goes yeah he will have a beer. She then thought it was cute how I was "playing shy". 

An hour later I had her number and we are planning on going out next week. lol 

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Mon Jul 06, 2015 01:39 PM
by Larry
thin or thick?

I am curious who dates what type. I have had both ask me out. I have been with both in the bedroom. To me, the thin ones look better in clothes and dress better, are able to be more flexible and what not... But the thick gals look damn fine naked and aren't affraid of food. lol So what do you prefer here? Thin being size 8 and under, and thick being larger than that. 

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Tue Jun 23, 2015 01:04 PM
Going separate ways

So me and this woman I was seeing have decided to take a break. She has to go out of town till August. She don't knwo if she will end up moving or not so it isn't worth holding on to something that may end anyways. Her family needs her. Any advice to take my mind off things?

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Tue Jun 23, 2015 11:43 AM
by Spider
My friends new boyfriend

So I finally met him. They have been dating for 3 weeks now. He ex was the typical gym rat, 6'2, buff, ate like a pig, loved to party... blah. So I was sort of expecting the same thing with the new guy. To my surprise, he is 5'6ish, very down to earth, and doesn't even swear! I was blown away because I have known this gal my whole life and she only ever dated super tall, ditsy jock types. So it goes to show you that even women with a preference can change their mind for the right guy!

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Tue Jun 23, 2015 11:40 AM
by Spider
"A short chubby chick like me needs a tall man"

There is this short pudgy woman that grew up in my hometown in the Bronx who would always put guys down for their height including myself  saying that she "needs a tall man because she's short". She'd also put down chubby guys even though she's a "BBW". Where is the logic in that? I saw this on her instragram this morning.

 

Her name is pu3rtorican_princess

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Mon Jun 22, 2015 12:10 PM
by Larry
My co-workers boyfriend

I honetly feel bad for this dude. This woman I work with, I am not friends with her but we talk, well she is always making short jokes about her boyfriend. Up until yesterday, I didn't even know what he looked like or anything. He brought her some lunch and was such a sweet heart. Very good looking man, well built, and even had good style. Well to his face, she is like this "baby needs this" type of woman. He spoils her. The second he left she make a height joke about him not going to her favorite restaraunt cause he can barely reach the front desk. Like wow. He is 5'5 and she is 5'7. Why be with someone if you are going to do this?

 

How does he not even know this happens!? I really wanted to say something but I know it is none of my business. 

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Fri Jun 19, 2015 01:31 PM
by Catman

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