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SmartAndNerdy

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Height: 5'4

Location: Montclair, United States

Joined: Apr 24, 2024

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Re: Can money "save" a short guy? Thread Starter

I'm in college and dating is okay, but I've read how tough it is for us guys when we get into the "real world". You always hear a lot of people say that "yeah, but if you're rich, you'll be okay". Or they will point out celebrities and say, "see X CELEBRITY gets all of the ladies and respect".

Now, I am not trying to attract gold diggers, so my goal is NOT to get money TO attract women in droves. I'm more curious about how this work. I can't imagine an old balding guy who is foaming at the mouth holding the latest iPhone having a woman say. "OMG, that guy over there has an iPhone 10, I'm totally going to dump that guy and get with that old balding guy over there".

Is it more about going fancy places and going on vacations? Wouldn't that look like you're trying to "compensate".

Even though I'm in college, in my social circle, I'm considered the "wealthiest" because of the gig work I do on the side (I do SEO and word press design). I don't broadcast this though. I wear regular clothes and drive an average car, but so do many of the athletes on campus and they swim in female attention.

You mean to tell me if I wear a suit and tie everywhere or dress in expensive clothes, I'll get way more female attention that I do now?

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Re: Caught this on Tinder. What makes her think I'd want to be friends? Thread Starter

You can thank her for being upfront. It begs the question though as to why she would think any man under 6' would look at this and say, "Yea! I want to be her friend!" 🙅

No thanks!

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Re: What advice would you give your son if he was short in today's time? Thread Starter

This message is really for the older guys on the forum. I'm in college in New York City, and dating isn't impossible, but there are challenges as a lot of the girls here are pretty blatantly vocal about their distaste for shorter guys. I don't get much issues with respect as I have a good circle of friends, though I come across some jerks from time to time.

I've read on other forums how dating was easier for shorter guys back in the day. How true is this and as my question says, if your son was short in today's time, what advice would you give him?

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Re: Why is it some women won't admit they're shallow and gaslight instead? Thread Starter

What I mean is, there are hundreds of thousands of videos on YouTube, Tik-Tok and Facebook of women insulting short men and expressing their unwillingness to give them a chance, but when you talk about this, they insist this doesn't happen?

These videos and memes get liked and shared thousands of times daily, but if you bring this up by calling them out on this, you either get crickets or "most women aren't like this, you must hate women", etc. Similar content aimed at women which criticize their behavior, bodies or life choices get shaming language or threats to cancel.

As a guy in college, I'd like to know why we can't even bring this up.

I'm not some incel, I get dates, but it baffles me that people can't have honest conversation about something that everyone knows happens.

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