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I am 100% happy with my height. The only times it was a "problem" was when I was a teenager as I was expected to be much taller than I am, but it was never because I wasn't happy with who I was. When I ended up at my final height at the end of high school, I was popular, athletic, had a high school sweetheart and a big social circle.
In the adult world, there would be the occasional jerk who would make snide comments, but consistent wins in my personal life has always had my confidence high.
Hi nimrofyosi. Welcome to the forum.
Yes, this happens all over the world and it won't be just because of your height, but many times it will be because of your height.
Develop a thick skin and get used to it. It will be hard. Remember though that women can be extremely brutal in a bar setting where they are constantly being pursued (and this can be in any social setting for that matter).
Short height will be a negative to many women, but what it means for you is to be tough minded, don't take it completely to heart (it will take time to let nasty comments roll off of your back) and keep approaching. 50 approaches with one win, is better than 10 approaches with none.
Learn to pick up on signals that a woman is interested, and back off if she isn't.
Know that men average height and tall get rejected all of the time, so it won't be unique to you.
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The important thing to remember is that the past cannot be changed. For whatever reason a person is short, the fact is just that they are short. A woman who isn't interested in a short guy is not going to change her mind because of why you're short. Think, if you aren't into dating single mothers or women who aren't attractive, do you care why they have kids or why they aren't attractive? Once you grapple with this, you will be able to move past that "feeling".
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At first, I felt bad for you. But now you are starting to sound like a tool. People on here have offered responses and told you what to do, yet you continue the feminine trait of whining. You could be 4'10"...would you prefer that height instead? Go get cosmetic limb lengthening and be done with it. No man on earth is desired by every woman... you know how ridiculous that sounds to say? Limb lengthen. It's your only solution.
Best answer in this thread.