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ThatFlyShortGuy

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Height: 5'7

Location: Queens, NYC, United States

Joined: Apr 16, 2014

Posts: 403

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Re: Short OG spills the beans on how to be more attractive to women

Dude is not wrong.

It's not popular to say in these spaces these days because of the pushback, but being fresh to death, in shape, charismatic and properly groomed will always command attention.

Stay away from the detractors and propagandists who have something to prove. By this, I mean those people who are "anti-short guy" and disrupt your successes and flow because they think you shouldn't be "that guy" and are jealous that you are the light of the party. I always knew tons like this.

No it's not a cure-all, but it definitely the way to go. It's harder for younger guys to grasp this because they see life happening around them, but nothing happens in a vacuum. You need to think about the long term.

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Re: How realistic is it for a short man to pull an attractive fit woman?

I'll bite. There are too many factors.

In my opinion, it comes down to:

• Looks
• Proximity
• Interests
• Education Level
• Class
• Finances
• Fitness
• Charisma

I do not consider myself to be that "mythical" short guy, but I've done well. The women I've done well with were into me not just because of looks (I have what many would consider to be a handsome face), but also because of my interests (piano, jazz, opera, gaming, tech), ability to hold conversation, and that I am very fit. The women I chat up tend to be classy and have a similar education level.

This does NOT mean that I am winning 100% or even 50% of the time, but I do put myself out there.

Now if I were an overweight slob who didn't dress well, stayed inside all day and had little ambition, yeah, there would be no chance in hell.

So I am saying "very likely" if a lot of those other parameters are left. Still, I'd say to keep your expectations in line.

Receiving a yes one out of twenty times is still better than not pursuing at all and sitting on the couch.

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Re: Tall woman still finds holding hands weird after 20 years of marriage

This was indeed a brutal read.