4'11 guy in NYC asks for dating advice. The responses are brutal.

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4'11 guy in NYC asks for dating advice. The responses are brutal.
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4'11 Man Asks For Dating Advice On Reddit. Responses Are Brutal | Height And Dating | Short King | TheLowerView

I cannot say that Reddit didn't deliver. As horrid as some of the responses are, they pulled no punches and gave him everything straight no chaser.

I do notice that the men responding are more realistic, while the women are virtue signaling. Also, what's great is the men who concern-troll are called out and humbled.

You can find that Reddit post here.

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I love that the guys who are responding are being keeping it a buck yeah. No reason to lie and gaslight for temporary feelings of hopefulness, just to get out there and fall flat on the ground.

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Like, you'd want to give this guy as much self-improvement advice as possible and it would be helpful, but then there's reality.

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The reality check is important, but it'd be more helpful to give the man actionable solution depending on what he'd want his outcome to be.

We all know that 4'11 on a man is rough. While I'm not psychologist, we know how the male mind works when we toil at something without having a solution.

 

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