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"I don't mind dating short guys, but my current boyfriend is 6'4"
When in conversations with women and the subject of height comes up, this response gets thrown around a lot. It's like a crazy cognitive dissonance. I don't understand why women do this. Is this to make them feel better about themselves for supposedly not being shallow, or to let people know that they are one of the "good ones" by agreeing with other women who make this claim? How are short guys in these conversations supposed to feel better about themselves when even the women who supposedly are okay with short guys still end up with tall guys and these women have to "make it known"? |
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Study says short men more likely to go bald than taller men.
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Woman leaves husband of 18 years following weight loss surgery
And guess why? Because he's too short. My opinion is she couldn't do better as a fat tub of lard, so post op after getting attention from more attractive guys, she bailed. What a bitch! |
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Isn't absurd when people compare overweight women with short men?
Hi
I often see people comparing short men with overweight women. Even short men compare their struggles with overweight women's struggles... but I find such comparison very absurd... I mean, nobody chooses his/her height... being disliked because of your height is as absurd as being disliked as a result of your nose shape... however, when it comes to weight, we are talking about something that most people can change by exercising and eating right... Additionally, taking care of your weight is very important! being anorexic or overweight is not good for a person's health. Your thoughts?
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harleydude1
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VIDEO: Can Short Guys Get Hot Girls? Tall Host In Shocked At Responses
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harleydude1
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Anyone resent women a bit after learning how much they value height?
When I was younger, I used to have a much more positive attitude about women and even identified a bit as a feminist, but that changed when I learned how many (most of them) see me and will always see me. Now I'm skeptical when dealing with women romantically on the rare occasion when I get a chance. It seems like no one is "fine" with my height but always makes excuses. He's short but is a great guy etc etc. |
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harleydude1
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braeden
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Things you hate which tall guys do
What are some things that tall guys do that you hate, such as: *Be arrogant *Make jokes about short men |
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What being a Short Man REALLY Means
As you can probably tell, I am a 5’1 adult male living in a world of criticism and insolence. All this seems terrible; correct? Well, actually no because I stand strong and I survive the attacks aimed at me. To elaborate on this, I will explain my optimistic concept. Call it what you will: acts of a syndrome, a silly idea, what have you. I will attempt to speak my honest words.
Being a shorter male, I am sometimes laughed, disregarded, rejected, or betrayed, etc. Witnessing these things really impacted me immensely. I dwelled on these things then the epiphany hit me. It explicates that being a shorter male is a blessing. Why? Because it grants him resilience, determination, and understanding. This is a situation that involves “Every setback is an opportunity for a comeback.” This was stated by Pastor Osteen. That is what being a short man means: Never giving up and appreciating the situation, no matter what it is.
Always know that various important figures throughout time were short males. There was the lawyer and leader, Mahatma Gandhi; the great entrepreneur, Andrew Carnegie; along with the passionate adventurer, Captain John Smith, the list goes on. It is even said that Jesus of Nazareth was short! I also need to include another leader, Martin Luther King Jr. All these individuals that I have enumerated followed the optimistic notion.
Also, this is for those of you who are open to faith. As a Christian, just know that God watches over you. I have studied different faiths and philosophies, and I believe that God in the Christian context is the complex being of justice and righteousness. This being always supports the “underdog,” of which could be the shorter man.
Let me end off by saying: never give up and love yourself. If someone tries putting you down, turn the left cheek and walk away, just as what Jesus of Nazareth did!
Heck, just earlier today at university, someone spat a piece of gum on my favorite sweater today; I don’t know if this was an accident or on purpose! But you want to know what I did? I went to the restroom, washed it off, and went through the day smoothly!
To all: have a blessed day! |
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What People Need to Realize about Feminism, Heightism and Short Men
So a lot of you seem perplexed about the whole ideal of Feminism and shorter men. I am hearing many questions that go: "If feminism is for the empowered woman, why does she need a taller man?" or "How does heightism affect woman?" I'm going to shed light on these issues. Feminism nowadays is striving for MORE ADVANTAGES for the woman. Feminism does NOT help the shorter men; in fact, it's more harmful. Why? Because it empowers the woman to do whatever she wants, and that is to go for TALLER men. Feminism is harmful for the shorter man.
Heightism affects woman in a POSITIVE way. In fact, I'd argue that heightism is being accentuated by woman RATHER than men. When a woman receives "amicable" acts of heightism towards her, such as a pat on the head or treated like a child, please keep in mind she likes it. A lot of woman nowadays follow this ideal of being cute and feminine.
All in all, the institutionalized, contemporary feminism and heightism affects the woman POSITIVELY and the shorter men NEGATIVELY. |
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Why do women mock short men?
With all of the global women's movements toward equality - women's suffrage, feminism, calling out pay disparities, body acceptance, why then do women turn around and mock men who don't meet their or society's standards? Isn't it bizarre? Like I could go out and make fun of fat women and then be chastised for it, but then they could mock short men at work or in social settings and be cheered on for it. Why of all people would women engage in or encourage this behavior? |
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If you woke up 6' tomorrow, how would you benefit the most?
Would it be packs of women chasing you down to sleep with you? I doubt it because many of my friends who are 6'+ get zero play. So how you would your life change in a way that you wouldn't have to work as hard to achieve something as you do now because you believe your height is holding you back? With me it would be not having to put up with being accused of "little man syndrome", so purely psychological. I think I'd also feel more confident. |
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Or maybe expand your preferences? This annoys the crap out of me
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I hate being a weak 5 feet 7
I'm into my thirties now and I still have trouble dealing with my lack of height. I measured myself and found I dip under 5ft7 at the end of the day. Tall friends love having a joke and laugh at my lack of height and my interaction with women in friendly situations is close to non existent. When a women does actually speak to me I get caught off guard and then realise they just want to know about my friend or are asking me the time etc, which brings me crashing back down to earth. I have to face it that being this height or less is that the majority don't respect you and women see you as undesirable, unless you have Zack Efron type looks or an exceptional personality and reputation. |
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gymshorts
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How to get suit jacket sleeves to be the right length?
Is it possible to alter suit jackets so the sleeves end up shorter with buttons in the right place? |
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snapplepus
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IcarusSoar working on another video to expose female hyporcisy
His first video just went viral this week garnering over 1,000,000 views. He says he is now working on a Part II since he has the funding |
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Can we blame educators for perpetuating heightism?
I witnessed something very interesting in the classroom yesterday afternoon. I co-teach with this female educator, let's call her Nancy. During a lesson on the book "To Kill A Mockingbird", we staged a reenactment of one of the scenes from the reading via reinterpretation. We allowed the kids to draf a more "modern" script using more relevant present day scenarios. We allowed the kids to use props, but they were limited to items in the classroom. Anyway, there were three kids in a group, all Middle School students. Two of the boys in this group were relatively tall for their age (about 5'9), the other 5'2-5'3. All of the kids in the group asked for an item that wasn't in the room, but downstairs in the auditorium. The smallest kid asked to go retrieve it. My co-teacher ignored the shorter student's request and sent both of the taller students to get the item. The thing is I knew she did this because she imagined the taller students to be more capable, even though the shorter student articulated clearly from a point of knowledge that he knew what he would have to do. This was confirmed when I confronted her about it. This has me wondering. Do we reinforce heightism from young age? |
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