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09-24-2017 at 06:20 pm

Heightism has brought me nothing else but

- Not accepting women who have slept with more than me, and who they have slept with (stereo types)

- Not accepting womens opinions and arguments not supported by hard facts

- Not accepting other womens past

- Not accepting who women surround them selves with (friends etc)

- Not accepting women who base their partners superfecially

- Not accepting women than care about size og penis, despite i am on the larger end

 

And i seriously wonder, no joke. Why does it all have to do with women? Have i been hurt to much? Or what triggers me so much that i have to dictate every woman who does not uphold the list i just mentioned. Even my own GF is a victim of this.

How do i see past it?



And how do you feel about it?

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09-28-2017 at 08:34 am

I think the thing that you might consider is to look on nature rules and stop thinking about what is being told as rules by human. we are still animals in nature. you are still young and at this age you may be over thinking about women as a young male but you will eventually find out that you have wasted so much precious time concentrating on it. i was in worse situation once but now i just think about what i have and i don't think about what i can't get. i got older and i couldn't find a woman for my life and i even couldn't get laid enough but it seems to me as something unreachable.  it's hard to abhor women but things happen and I'm learning to level down my hatered to hate and dislike. Things were supposed to be happened this way.

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09-30-2017 at 05:10 am

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Originally posted by multinational

Heightism has brought me nothing else but

- Not accepting women who have slept with more than me, and who they have slept with (stereo types)

- Not accepting womens opinions and arguments not supported by hard facts

- Not accepting other womens past

- Not accepting who women surround them selves with (friends etc)

- Not accepting women who base their partners superfecially

- Not accepting women than care about size og penis, despite i am on the larger end

 

And i seriously wonder, no joke. Why does it all have to do with women? Have i been hurt to much? Or what triggers me so much that i have to dictate every woman who does not uphold the list i just mentioned. Even my own GF is a victim of this.

How do i see past it?



And how do you feel about it?


So you think being short has made you more unaccepting of women overall?

 

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10-01-2017 at 06:26 am

while that might have been the effect that being short has had on you, i think that everyone's personality molds the emotion that we pour out, for me being short has made me have low self esteem, and no self worth because in my eyes every woman that i see that is taller than me thinks they are better than me and this has gone on for so long that i eventually began to believe it. 

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10-01-2017 at 09:08 am

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Originally posted by paolo2012345

while that might have been the effect that being short has had on you, i think that everyone's personality molds the emotion that we pour out, for me being short has made me have low self esteem, and no self worth because in my eyes every woman that i see that is taller than me thinks they are better than me and this has gone on for so long that i eventually began to believe it. 


Not doubting your experiences, but how do you "know" that women taller than you think that they are "better" than you? You did say in your eyes, so that is related to self esteem. Confidence is a word that people don't like being thrown around here, but that "confidence" relates to how you see yourself and how much value you know you bring to the table even if others don't see it.

Many of those taller women are single moms, have debt up the sky, may sleep around, narcissistic.... You have reason to be a bit cocky if you have your stuff together even if they are "further up the totem pole".

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