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Jinx
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So I may have made a woops.
So I was seeing this gal on and off. We slept together a few times, been on a few dates, it was never serious. Well after not seeing her for like almost 2 months, I get a txt saying we need to talk. She is pregnant. And here is the kicker, she was with 3 other dudes while messing with me. SOOO glad I didn't get serious with her but yeah... there is a 25% the baby is mine. I have been calm for the last few days but it hit me today seeing little kids running around. What do I do in this position? |
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Spider
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Started by
ShortNProud
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I think someone at work likes me
So this new girl, or rather, "women" started 2 weeks ago. She is always looking at me smiling and asking me for help. She is 19, which is a but young for me ( I don't date more then 5 years younger than myself), but she is cute. I am not sure if I should do anything about this or not. |
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ShortNProud
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James007
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How many dates before it is official?
I am curious about this. When dating a woman, when does it become and official relationship? How many dates does it take? |
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Is it fair to say short men and tall women have it the hardest?
Quote: Originally posted by GoKnicks
Sounds logical. I guess tall women have it as bad as short guys when it comes to preference but some men like model bodies so tall and thin is what they love. I still think women have it easier, even taller ones. BUT that is not to say they don't have trouble with weight. A lot of dudes out there will shun a gal for being 10 pounds heavier then she was when they first started dating. |
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Hunter
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Dating in LA sucks
I have been on 10 dates in the last 3 months and they all sucked. I find there are more women out here who are taller than me so dating is harder, not to mention all the men who are like 6' and up. It is a struggle. Any advice on meeting women in LA? I moved here 2 years ago for work and the dating game has been horrific. |
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Spider
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Spider
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Are biker women more... Assertive?
I got approached by a biker woman last night when me and a few buddies were out eating. She was a few inches taller than me, very strong and beautiful. No make-up, messy hair, around 22 in age (I am pushing 32). Anyways, she walks up to me and tells me she thinks I am a good looking man and wants to buy me a drink. I sat there in shock and my friend goes yeah he will have a beer. She then thought it was cute how I was "playing shy". An hour later I had her number and we are planning on going out next week. lol |
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Larry
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ShortNProud
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thin or thick?
I am curious who dates what type. I have had both ask me out. I have been with both in the bedroom. To me, the thin ones look better in clothes and dress better, are able to be more flexible and what not... But the thick gals look damn fine naked and aren't affraid of food. lol So what do you prefer here? Thin being size 8 and under, and thick being larger than that. |
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James007
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MrDixon
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Going separate ways
So me and this woman I was seeing have decided to take a break. She has to go out of town till August. She don't knwo if she will end up moving or not so it isn't worth holding on to something that may end anyways. Her family needs her. Any advice to take my mind off things? |
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Spider
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JellyKelly
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My friends new boyfriend
So I finally met him. They have been dating for 3 weeks now. He ex was the typical gym rat, 6'2, buff, ate like a pig, loved to party... blah. So I was sort of expecting the same thing with the new guy. To my surprise, he is 5'6ish, very down to earth, and doesn't even swear! I was blown away because I have known this gal my whole life and she only ever dated super tall, ditsy jock types. So it goes to show you that even women with a preference can change their mind for the right guy! |
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Spider
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"A short chubby chick like me needs a tall man"
There is this short pudgy woman that grew up in my hometown in the Bronx who would always put guys down for their height including myself saying that she "needs a tall man because she's short". She'd also put down chubby guys even though she's a "BBW". Where is the logic in that? I saw this on her instragram this morning.
Her name is pu3rtorican_princess |
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Larry
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Started by
SharkApple
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My co-workers boyfriend
I honetly feel bad for this dude. This woman I work with, I am not friends with her but we talk, well she is always making short jokes about her boyfriend. Up until yesterday, I didn't even know what he looked like or anything. He brought her some lunch and was such a sweet heart. Very good looking man, well built, and even had good style. Well to his face, she is like this "baby needs this" type of woman. He spoils her. The second he left she make a height joke about him not going to her favorite restaraunt cause he can barely reach the front desk. Like wow. He is 5'5 and she is 5'7. Why be with someone if you are going to do this?
How does he not even know this happens!? I really wanted to say something but I know it is none of my business. |
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Catman
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"I love short guys said no girl ever"
While some of you might think this is a dating issue and therefore this thread shouldn't be posted here, I beg to differ. A few months back there was some campaign to get rid of a similarly themed refrigerator magnet from another store which I can't recall. I say we should approach this one the same way. Is there some sticker that says "I love fat girls, said no man ever" or "I love black girls, said no man ever"? No there isn't. So while I normally don't get into things like these, I think we should contact the site adminstrator. |
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GoKnicks
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Started by
Jinx
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The "height" question?
Did you respond yet? I would imagine you did by now. I think she just wanted to know because it is something she is curious about not that she is worried you are too short or too tall. If she cared over vanity it would have came up sooner. |
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Jinx
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What is the first thing women notice?
In your experience, or for them women out there, what it the first thing a female notices about a man? I know with men to women, it is usually the overall figure, the hair, and the lips. |
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Catman
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A friend got asked out by a taller woman...
I have a newish friend I met through my cousin. He is short, about my height. Well he hasn't been in a relationship in a while and only ever had one girl. They dated from middle school on till he was 21 then they broke it off for good when she cheated on him with some jock at her college. You can gues his height. Anyways, a woman asked him out but she is 3 inches taller than him and he doesn't feel like he should date her over it. She clearly has no issue so why should he? She is a beautiful woman I don't get it. |
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ShortNProud
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What advice do you have for me? I'm 5'8 and want 9s and 10s.
I am a 5'8 guy. I'm 28 years old and live out in L.A. It seems like L.A. is the land of giants. Every guy around here is at least 5'11. It takes a lot for me to get noticed in clubs by 9s an 10s and I don't want to be pushy. My friends say I dress very well. I have a good paying job as an IT Consultant. I make 90K. I can't seem to find a way in when it comes to talking to the ladies who are 9s and 10s. I pull 7s and below easily. Can you give any advice? |
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SharkApple
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